Dating - Landing a Date With The Opposite Sex

Author: robert | Posted: 14.11.2008

If you are a male in the party scene you know just as much as anyone else how hard it is to build the trust and admiration of the opposite sex in a swift amount of time, especially in a public environment. Many a female that may have captured your attention can easily take off before you even had a chance to think up a conversation to get her engaged in the activity of getting to know you. These situations, as you know, can result in disgruntlement and a lingering sense of failure.

We all know if you were Brad Pitt this problem would not even be an issue. Walking up to a lady for conversation, you would hardly need to even say a noise for a lady to interact with you. Why would engaging a lady not be an issue for Mr. Pitt? Well, it is not because Brad Pitt is an attractive guy as much as it is the fact that he is widely recognized worldwide for his acting career. It is his prestige factor that would make him approachable and alluring to the opposite sex.

While you cannot be Brad Pitt when dating, there are some painless ways to build your prestige with minimal effort and cost. Without going all out on costly services and products you can let the females in the dating world know your important and even explain a bit of yourself without saying a word.

Tip one: Feet.

The opposite sex aka the female has a tendency to pay attention to shoes. It has been shown that females look at a man's shoes first before anything else and many a time pass a 50% judgment right there. Making sure your worn shoes are decent is a must.

Tip two: Create Mystery.

Nothing is more shoddy, and sometimes even creepy, than a man reeking of Cologne. By having a lighter fragrance not only are you less likely to repel, but you also are more likely to create a mystery aura about yourself and have the females wanting to get closer to you to get a second whiff of your scent.

Tip three: Welcome Card.

Get yourself some business cards. Create a card specifically for handing out to women. Have a picture of yourself on there with only your first name as a contact name. Use additional card space to add a fun witty slogan about your personality, maybe even your MySpace address. I have a pal that put under his name, Party Connoisseur, and the women just adored it.

Tip four: Call me anytime.

On your personal business card give a 888 number. 888 numbers do not only offer prestige but a way for the opposite sex to contact you from anywhere at your expense, but don't worry, 800 numbers are economical and cost you just pennies a minute. A 888 number says your important without you having to bore women with a large speech about yourself. Remember, women like to talk too.

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