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Why Physical Limits Are Important For Dating Christians

Published by Robert Thomson | December 15th 2008 | Views:

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Today's attitudes to co-habiting are much different to previous generations. Where as many couples would wait until they tied the knot before marriage, these days couples live quite happily without being in wedlock. The mere suggestion of intimacy limits is usually frowned upon, but is it such radical thinking?

So what are the rules when it comes to physical intimacy in Christian dating, should couples be willing to accept that society has changed that much that limits no longer apply, or can you expect your potential partner to respect your beliefs in waiting until you are married before becoming physically intimate?

The answer is yes, there should be Christian dating intimacy limits, simply because it is in accordance with your Christian beliefs. We should respect the limits set forth in the Bible that discourage physical intimacy prior to wed lock.

A physical limit does not mean that a dating couple is forbidden to have physical desires for one another merely that those desires are not to be acted upon unless the couple has entered into the covenant of marriage. Learning how to manage your desires is all part of proving you can be a good Christian and have respect for your partner.

This means that when such feelings are experienced, the couple must learn to show self control and restraint that must be shown prior to marriage. Once the marriage covenant has been enacted, the couple will be free to consummate their vowsing to God and that much more meaningful.

Anything worth having is worth waiting for, which includes physical intimacy. Remember that you are building a relationship, not only with each other, but with God. You are also proving to one another that you place a higher value upon trust and that the future is more important to you than the instant gratification that the present may bring.

So should there be Christian dating intimacy limits? If you love and respect your dating partner then definitely yes. What endures is the love that a couple nourishes for each other, and for God. And regardless of what society preaches, physical intimacy is worth waiting for. Don't be seduced by the philosophy of 'if it feels good, do it!' because that will greatly effect your relationship with your partner.


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